People are naturally drawn to others who are fun to be around. Do people have fun around you are you a drag? If you are not very fun (or don’t feel very fun) here are 10 ways you can start to be more fun starting today.
1. Smile More If You Want To Be More Fun To Be Around
Fun people smile. When someone is feeling good they naturally smile. And when people are feeling good, they have more fun. In short, it doesn’t matter what you are doing, smile more.
How Can You Smile More?
It’s very easy. Look around and find things to smile about.
- A cute cat or puppy.
- A beautiful sunrise.
- Something good that happened or is coming up.
Note: If you find yourself in a funk or can’t get out of a negative thought loop, force yourself to smile. Fake it until you make it. It works to boost how you feel! It may feel unnatural at first, but eventually, it will become more natural and even fun.
2. Add Play To Everything You Do
When you were a kid, everything was fun. You didn’t have to worry about bills or work or any of the other adulting problems that bog you down now, which definitely helped. But just because you’re an adult doesn’t mean you can’t find ways to add play into your life.
How To Add Play To Your Day
- Do something fun every day, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
- Play a game on your phone.
- Read a funny book or article.
- Watch a hilarious TV show or movie.
- Have a pillow fight.
- Jump on a trampoline.
- Color in a coloring book.
- Use your imagination.
There are so many ways to add play to your day and every situation you are in. When you do, you will find yourself having more fun and you will definitely be more fun to be around.
3. Be More Spontaneous
Fun people are spontaneous. They are always up for anything and they don’t let the little things bother them.
If something comes up, they go with the flow and make the best of it.
How To Be More Spontaneous
- Be open to new experiences and new people.
- Don’t be afraid to try new things.
- Say yes more often.
- Be flexible and go with the flow.
- Don’t sweat the small stuff.
4. Be A Good Listener
Fun people are good listeners. They are interested in what other people have to say and they are quick to lend a listening ear.
Often, the best way to be fun to be around is simply to be there for someone else.
How To Be A Good Listener
- Be present when someone is talking to you.
- Put away your phone and give the person your full attention.
- Make eye contact and nod your head to show that you are interested.
- Ask questions about the person’s life and experiences.
5. Be Positive
Fun people are positive. They see the glass half full instead of half empty. They find the silver lining in every cloud. And they always look on the bright side of things.
How To Be More Positive
- Focus on the good instead of the bad.
- Look for the silver lining in every cloud.
- Find things to be grateful for.
- Don’t dwell on negative thoughts.
6. Be A Good Storyteller
Fun people are good storytellers. They can keep you entertained for hours with their tales of adventure, love, and triumph. They paint a picture with their words and make you feel like you are right there with them.
How To Be A Good Storyteller
- Pay attention to things going on around you.
- Be descriptive and paint a picture with your words when you are recounting a story.
- Make the story interesting by adding suspense, humor, or emotion.
- Keep the story concise and to the point.
7. Be Confident
Fun people are confident. They know who they are and they are comfortable in their own skin. They don’t care what other people think of them and they are always up for a good time.
How To Be More Confident
- Work on your self-esteem.
- Accept compliments and be proud of your accomplishments.
- Don’t be afraid to be different.
- Be comfortable in your own skin.
8. Be Outgoing
Fun people are outgoing. They are the life of the party and they always seem to be surrounded by friends. They make things happen and they are always up for anything.
How To Be More Outgoing
- Be friendly and approachable.
- Make conversation with people you don’t know.
- Join clubs and organizations.
- Attend social events and meetups.
9. Be Ready For Anything
Fun people are always ready for anything. They are spontaneous and they don’t let the little things bother them. They are always up for anything and they never say no to a good time.
How To Be Ready For Anything
- Be open to new experiences and new people.
- Don’t be afraid to try new things.
- Say yes more often.
- Be flexible and go with the flow.
10. Be Yourself
Fun people are themselves. They are confident and they know who they are. They don’t try to be someone they’re not and they don’t care what other people think of them. They are comfortable in their own skin and they always have a good time.
How To Be Yourself
- Work on your self-esteem.
- Accept compliments and be proud of your accomplishments.
- Don’t be afraid to be different.
- Be comfortable in your own skin.
These are just a few ways you can be more fun to be around. Just remember to be yourself, be positive, be spontaneous, and be ready for anything. And most importantly, have a good time!
